After a break up, it can take a while to get back on your feet in terms of hooking up and dating. You have been out of the game for a long time. Well, just like you wouldn’t go join a hockey league and jump into a game without doing a few stretches, you shouldn’t try to get back into dating without warming up. You’re rusty and what you need to get back on your feet is a rebound girl.
Scoping Out Your Circle of Friends
Sometimes, the very best rebound girl is already right in front of you. Your circle of friends and acquaintances probably already includes at least one, maybe more single girls whom you have already broken the ice with and gotten to know. Friends with benefits are a really great resource to have, so look at any recently single girls or women that you know go through a lot of men. You’re just looking to get back on the horse, so don’t worry about whether or not this woman is going to turn out to be the love of your life; That’s not what you want right now.
If you have any long time crushes, now would be the time to ask them out; they’ll have seen how hard you were taking the break up, and will probably be more willing to help you recover. Also, ask around your friend’s group; if there were any girls who have had a crush on you that you don’t know about, now would be the perfect time to make their dreams come true.
Answering Personal Sex Ads
Sometimes, the answer to your problems really does lie with a stranger. An exciting casual encounter may be all you need to brush off the dust of your last relationship and start fresh. Keep your head held high and look on the local messenger boards and meet up sites. Set up an online dating profile just for casual sex.
If you haven’t done this sort of thing before, meeting up with Internet acquaintances for real life fantasy fulfillment is the perfect thing to bust yourself out of the rut that you’re in. Remember to stay safe and be smart; always exchange pictures with the woman you’re going to meet and always use protection. Other than that, go nuts; explore this side of your sexuality with abandon, and you’ll be surprised how much more confident you are in other areas of your sexuality and life.
Even if it takes you a little while to feel like you’re capable of getting back in the saddle and dating again, that’s fine. You can take your time to heal as long as you’re still pressing forward. If you’re answering sex ads, scoping out girls you know for a fling, one night stand, or a more steady friends-with-benefits situation, then you’re doing all that you can. Rebounds are the thing that will perk you up and keep you going, so as long as you’re working on it, you’re doing well.