Playlists are possibly the best thing to happen to hook ups and make out sessions in the last thirty years. Instead of awkward silence or a terribly long time picking out what album or CD to put on, now you can have a custom mix to smooth over the awkward sounds and increase the intensity of the moment. But what sort of playlist should you make?
Change It Up
You want to have a lot of variety in your playlist. Not chaotic; you should craft some smooth curves, ups and downs with the songs, alternating fast and slow tempo beats and building transitions in between. You want all your songs to have elements of sexiness, but you also want them to be both fast and slow.
Fast songs get the blood racing, and add intensity to the listener. A blazing guitar lick in the background is going to spur you on to new heights, and a really fantastic bass solo is going to get her heart racing. You tend to want to do things at the pace that the music’s doing things, so loud, harsh songs are going to bring about some rough lovemaking and aggressive make outs sessions when you’re hooking up with someone.
Slow songs are made to stick with you. Even sexy slow songs are calming, and soothing; these songs will help you keep it together so that you can last as long as you like. Slow songs focus more on being sensual; sex won’t be as rough, but it will be more erotic and indulgent, and possibly spur you on to do great things.
Getting a mix of these two main types of songs and music will bring you out ahead of the game, and a truly inspired mix will use pacing to set you up with the absolute best sex of your entire life.
What Genre Should You Pick?
When it comes to knowing what sort of genre to slap into a playlist, you really have to know your audience. Some girls just really hate country music; some really hate rap or hip-hop. If you want a generic playlist you can break out for any girl you might happen to meet, you should stick to pop and the top forty when constructing this playlist. Even if they’re not a huge fan of pop music, these are songs that she’s probably heard before and will be able to go along with.
Once you get to know her, of course, then you can bust out the indie rock, pop jazz, or whatever rare bands she’s into and construct a romantic and sexy playlist that’s just for you and her.
When constructing your playlist, the best thing you can do is focus on the beats. Listen to pop and top forty stations until you hear some really sexy beats, and then mix them up together. Remember to keep a mix of fast and slow songs, and you’ll have a sex life as gorgeous and varied as the music you put into it.