If you and your lady friend are fizzling out in the bedroom, it may be unsettling. Don’t worry! Downtime does not mean that the relationship is dead, it just needs some extra spice, and a great way to do that is to bring sex toys into the picture. Not only will they help her reach the orgasm she’s always dreamed of, it can do wonders for you as well. If you suffer from erectile dysfunction (which is a very common issue), toys can help, but if you are just plain bored of the same old sex, toys can help bring back that long lost lust you crave.
If your sex life is lacking then your girlfriend is probably using one. Don’t be offended if she does – it is very common for girls to indulge in naughty pleasures behind closed doors. Instead, be happy that she decided to include you in the action. If she doesn’t have a vibrator, suggest that she should invest in one. Using this toy can do wonders for her during foreplay since the vibrations will stimulate her easier than your fingers. Focus on making her feel good and asks what she wants done, helping to break the ice and increase intimacy. You can use it to help loosen her up before sex for great results.
Putting one of these on might not seem like fun, but it’s a lifesaver if you have issues with getting or staying hard. The pressure that the ring puts on you will keep you from losing your erection during sex, so your partner will be absolutely thrilled. It also keeps you from ejaculating prematurely, helping you last longer to really please your lover for longer than usual. If getting hard is an issue, invest in a ring with a small vibrator inside. Having a little help is nothing to be ashamed of, and this is guaranteed to give you the boost of confidence you may be lacking. If you feel embarrassed about using one, don’t worry. She won’t think that you’re any less of a man, and if you get a vibrating one, she will benefit from the cock ring as well – if anything, she’ll be flattered that you made the effort. Cock rings come in various shapes, sizes, and colors, just like vibrators, so pick the one that works best for you.
They are the unspoken Holy Grail of female (and couple) toys. Majority of women have trouble reaching orgasm from penetration alone, so surprising her with a pocket size massager may help her reach a powerful climax. Stimulating her clitoris will help her climax faster and more frequently than she has previously, and she’ll be begging for more in no time. Using it during foreplay can get her extremely aroused, so adding it during sex will help amplify the whole experience. Give it a shot, let her control the speed and pressure, and step your game up in a whole new way.