“Tell her to take her clothes off, as you watch it live”

Thanks to the Internet, anyone can have a relationship via the computer. They can laugh and talk more often, getting to know each other in a more intimate way. But what about sex? Cybersex is the answer. Cyber sex is basically messaging a girl and telling her all of the dirty things that you want to do to her when you finally meet her (if ever), and if she is already your girlfriend, the type of things you may be too shy to say in person (perfect for when you are apart during holidays). There’s an art to being able to type naughty things that actually arose the other person simultaneously.

Get Better at Typing

It’s not the most obvious solution, but being accurate and faster at typing will speed up your replies and make you seem sexier. Being able to type better has the same effect as being a charming speaker; you’ll get her cyber clothes off even faster. Community colleges have typing classes that aren’t too difficult but will actually keep you on course and make you get through it instead of feeling inadequate in the typing area of cybersex. If you’re one of those lucky people that possess self discipline, there are plenty of online courses that can help you type faster and with more precision. Still not your style? Well try one of those typing games that have you type words to shoot aliens or win points; not only do they help with your typing speed, but they also increase your vocabulary. How sexy!

Take Better Pictures of Yourself

“Show her clear pictures of yourself so that she gets aroused”

Part of cyber sex is sending each other sexy pictures or watching videos of one another. Most of the time you’ll be using your webcam to do this, but if you have become close and exchanged cell numbers you might be able to text. In the case that you’re using a webcam, use plenty of lighting. Webcams have horrible resolution and often lead to dark or blurry pictures. You’re also going to have to make sure all of the parts you want fit into the frame. Unless you’re sending her a head shot, you should generally take the picture from the neck down to the groin. It’s a tease since she can’t actually see what you are doing to yourself. Later on you can move the camera down a few inches and let her see what you are doing. In the case that you’re using a cell phone, you’re going to have to fit everything inside a small video frame. The best way to take a picture of most of your body is to get in front of a mirror. It will be a lot easier doing this than using a webcam since you won’t have to worry about using timers.

Practice Your Dirty Words

The vast majority of cybersex is talking dirty. Granted, it’s easier to type dirty words than say them, but you still want to be comfortable with them and use them fluently. Come up with some phrases that you’ll use in case you can’t think of anything to say.